How to control Anger

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Sometimes you suddenly become angry while talking to your friends or having gossips with them. You may lose your temper in return.

Here are some tips to temper and become patient in those situations.

We are in a habit of speaking without thinking. Our words just seem to fly out of our mouths before we know it. Think for a while and evaluate that what you are going to say will be beneficial or it may hurt someone; who may become angry at you as well. Rather than wasting time on unnecessary speech or talking aimlessly engage yourself in Dhikar that is definitely very beneficial and may not harm you and your fellow human beings as well.

“If you don’t have something nice to say, don’t say anything at all”

The thing or act that will hurt you may also hurt your fellow human beings you apologize if you committed the mistake to hurt someone. Though it may be pretty difficult or uncomfortable for you to accept your mistake but apologizing on what you said to hurt someone will raise your place in his mind.

Secondly, it can help better your relationship with the other person, because you are showing that you are aware of their feelings and that you care about them

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Your friends company matter a lot. If you had a company of people who occasionally indulge themselves in backbiting and useless gossips, try to not sit in that company rather have friends who talk and discuss on valuable and informative topics

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